You Do You

November 1, 2019

Gr 8 Up-Most of this text covers familiar subjects such as reproductive organs, puberty, hygiene, masturbation, sex, sexually transmitted infections, and pregnancy. Consent, an important topic, is front and center in the opening chapter and revisited several times. However, Mirk doesn't devote enough time to discussing what happens in the absence of consent (what to do if sexual assault happens). The author makes an effort to validate LGBTQ+ and gender-variant readers, though they will probably need to seek additional information elsewhere. Sections on self-care, talking about feelings, and recognizing unhealthy relationships are welcome inclusions. The book shares appropriate information about social media and sexting and deals with abortion in a straightforward manner. Mirk emphasizes individuality and that readers should do what's right for them. Some sections offer advice that is factually informed. Back matter includes a substantial glossary, further reading, and recommended YouTube channels, Instagram accounts, podcasts, and websites. VERDICT Mirk provides a relevant guide for today's teens who need help figuring out their anatomy and their relationships. A suitable addition for libraries needing more books of this nature.-Alex Graves, Manchester City Library, NH

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Starred review from September 15, 2019
An affirming, up-to-date book for teens that encourages smart, informed decision-making about their own bodies. Navigating an ever shifting world of bodies, identities, emotions, and expectations can be overwhelming. This volume is educational and engaging; slang terms are employed alongside their scientific counterparts, and pop-culture references appear throughout. The text approaches a range of topics in accessible language: issues relating to gender and sexual orientation, including coming out, allyship, emotional labor, bodies and body image, and sexism; puberty, including menstruation; sex, including consent, assault, contraceptives, and abortion; STI symptoms, transmission, and treatment; and healthy communication strategies, abusive relationships, and breakups. Notably, the text addresses readers without making assumptions about their gender, sex, or sexual orientation and emphasizes the difference between gender and sex, using language like "people with ovaries" rather than "women." Similarly, while there is a distinct section that explores gender identity and sexual orientation, content relating to LGBTQ+ people and experiences is seamlessly woven throughout the book, and various combinations of genders appear in sample scenarios. The book's funky black, purple, and lime green cover and interior seem deliberately designed to appeal to a broad audience, resisting the very gender constraints exposed within. Some yellow sidebars are confusingly placed in the middle of longer bullet-pointed segments, but overall the book is well designed and easy to read. Highly recommended for teens and the adults who care for them. (glossary, bibliography, resources, index, photo credits) (Nonfiction. 13-18)

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